Description

Are you fairly new to BDSM and think you might be on the submissive or switchy side and don’t know where to start with setting boundaries, negotiating correctly, avoiding topping from the bottom, etc? I am here to help advise and help you figure out what feels right for you. An important part of being on the submissive side of BDSM and having a great time is knowing what your interests are and expressing them in the correct way to another person who would like to explore them with you. But while there are lots of classes on the right way to swing a flogger it can feel harder to find out how to be a good submissive through classes. A good submissive is not one who can take more pain or do more for their Dominant. A good submissive is someone who knows and understands themself and can communicate that well in a scene negotiation, who understands their own boundaries and can express them in the right way at the appropriate time, who feels able to say no during the negotiation and who is able to be honest about their level of experience and any past experiences.

This is not a set class taught to a strict script. We will cover the areas you feel are relevant to you, and spend longer on some areas you struggle with and less time or skip over areas you feel confident in. You can even do some basic practice sessions at saying ‘no’ to me if this is something you struggle with, particularly in a BDSM context. We can also discuss how to approach Dominants for play and how to attend events if you would like ideas in either of these areas.

This could be a one off session, either online or in person. Or it could be a weekly, monthly or occasional ongoing aid.

If you have one specific topic you would like help figuring out you are welcome to message before ordering to check I feel it is a topic I can hopefully provide some insights in. I will not judge anything you are into, but there are a few areas of BDSM I have either no knowledge or very little knowledge of so would not be qualified to advise in (e.g. needles and blood letting, age play.)

If you would like to meet up in person it will require you to travel to Leicestershire in the UK to attend. If you would like to meet online this can be done through various online platforms.

When ordering this product please list either several specific dates or general days of the week and times you would be available to attend. If you require the tutorial on one specific date please call us to check availability before purchasing this item on 07976022639.

The tutorial is designed for one on one or a couple/group in a dynamic.

Please note this tutorial will not encompass any sexual acts. It will not include ANY kind of BDSM play. It is purely to talk about aspects such as how you can negotiate correctly and communicate well as a submissive.